Jika anda merasa sayang



7 Februari 2015
Jika anda merasa sayang

Kalau kita benar-benar merasa sayang kepada seseorang…
Bukan bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk memiliki dia. Akan tetapi bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk membahagiakan dia.
Bukan bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk selalu bersama dia. Akan tetapi bagaimana cara kita membuktikan agar ia merasa nyaman ketika bersama kita.
Bukan bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk menguasai pikirannya. Akan tetapi bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk memahami jalan pikirannya.
Bukan bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk menaklukkan hatinya. Akan tetapi bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk menenteramkan jiwa dan perasaannya.
Dan bukan bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk memanjakannya. Akan tetapi bagaimana cara kita membuktikan untuk memuliakannya.
Karena begitulah bentuk ungkapan rasa sayang kita kepada seseoorang yang sesungguhnya.

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