Oh Allah
"O Allah, grant this servant the opportunity to meet their destined partner, a partner who will bring goodness both in this world and the hereafter.
I long for a relationship where we can walk together and support each other to seek Your pleasure. I desire every step we take to be blessed by Your guidance. Although my understanding of Your best path continues to evolve within me, I wish to go through every process together.
For me, marriage is the greatest commitment in life. Besides being a lifelong act of worship, it's also an ongoing learning process. Therefore, I seek a partner who has found themselves and has strong faith in their Lord.
I do not believe in the notion of 'my flaws will be covered by them, or we complete each other.' I aspire to be a whole individual, believing that together, we both aim for the same goal - happiness in this world and the hereafter. I don't want our relationship to be based on weaknesses and strengths, but on shared aspirations and life principles.
I believe that communication is the key to maintaining commitment and achieving these goals. Assertive communication that builds trust and honesty between partners. When there's no good and open communication, it can lead to physical or emotional violence.
Lack of respect for each other's choices and opinions can also harm a relationship. Infidelity and cheating make a relationship fragile. Without emotional and mental support for each other, a relationship may falter. Equality and balance in responsibilities and roles within the household are crucial, as is respect for each other's privacy and personal boundaries.
I also understand that the ability to address conflicts in a healthy and constructive manner is vital. Habitual verbal or non-verbal belittlement of one another should be avoided. I aim to maintain our relationship by always working to solve problems and face difficulties together.
Lastly, I want to build an enduring marriage with a strong commitment. I am ready to nurture and perpetuate this relationship. May my prayers be answered, and may I find the best match according to Your will. Ameen."
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